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Rachanaa Tulsyan is a compassionate breakup and divorce coach, certified by IDCCE and accredited by CPD. With a deep understanding of emotional struggles, Rachanaa guides individuals through the pain of separation, abusive relationships, and heartbreak. Having lived through an abusive relationship herself, she offers her clients more than just advice—she offers genuine understanding and empathy.

Unlike traditional counseling or therapy, Rachanaa's coaching is about empowerment and motivation. She helps her clients not only heal but rebuild their lives with newfound strength and confidence. Her unique approach focuses on moving forward, finding inner resilience, and truly thriving after a heartbreak. Rachanaa also incorporates Reiki healing into her coaching, providing an extra layer of support for those facing difficult transitions. Through her guidance, clients rediscover themselves and find the courage to embrace a brighter future.

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The Healing Plateau: Why You Feel Stuck Even After Doing ‘All the Work’

You’ve journaled. Cried. Meditated. Gone to therapy. Read the books. Had the breakthroughs. And yet—something feels stuck. It’s not like you’ve gone backward. But the forward motion that once felt clear now feels foggy. You feel flat. Unmoved. Maybe even guilty for not feeling better. This stage can feel invisible to others, but inside it’s […]

“But They Were So Nice at First”: Why Love-Bombing Feels Like a Dream and Ends Like a Nightmare

It felt like magic. They texted every morning. Called every night. Showed up with surprises. Told you things you’d waited years to hear. You believed them. Why wouldn’t you? The connection felt fast, warm, real. And then something shifted. They pulled back. Or changed the rules. Or made you feel guilty for needing what they […]

The Fantasy Fix: Why You Keep Hoping They’ll Come Back Changed

They were hard to love. But you did. You waited, forgave, adjusted. When things fell apart, a part of you still stayed. Not with them—but with the version of them you wish existed. Even after the silence, the hurt, the distance… you catch yourself imagining them coming back. Apologizing. Owning it. Telling you they’ve changed. […]

How to Tell If You’re Actually Healing (or Just Numbing the Pain)

Sometimes healing feels productive. Other times, it feels like silence or space. But not everything that looks calm means progress. You might be meditating every day, reading all the right books, keeping busy, but something still feels off. You avoid the memories, avoid the conversations, and call it “peace.” It’s easy to confuse coping with […]

The Abuser’s Handbook: 7 Manipulation Tactics You Didn’t Realize Were Abuse

Some control doesn’t look like control at all. It sounds kind. Or sounds like love. Sometimes it even sounds like reason. That’s what makes it hard to spot—especially when you’re in it. These tactics aren’t loud. They don’t leave marks. But they shift the way you think, speak, and feel. Slowly. Quietly. By the time […]

The Kindness Trap: When Niceness Becomes Emotional Manipulation

Not every harmful relationship starts with criticism or shouting. Some begin with warmth. Thoughtfulness. Even affection. The trouble is, it can feel wrong to question someone who’s “nice.” You tell yourself you’re lucky. You convince yourself you’re overthinking. But when kindness starts to feel like pressure, or guilt, or something you need to earn—there’s more […]

When Closure Is a Lie: Why You Don’t Need It to Heal

There’s a moment, right after a breakup, when things go quiet. The noise fades. But inside your head, it’s still loud. You wait. Not for them, exactly. But for something to land. Something that explains why it all crumbled. You scroll back through messages, look for signs you missed, try to stitch something together that […]

Gaslighting Recovery: Trusting Your Reality Again After Psychological Manipulation

Gaslighting doesn’t start with screaming. It starts with subtle doubt. Over time, you begin to question what you said, what you saw, and eventually, who you are. It’s not loud. It’s steady. And when it’s been happening long enough, even your instincts can feel unreliable. That’s not a weakness. That’s the impact of psychological manipulation. […]

The Digital Aftermath of a Breakup and What to Do About It

Breakups used to happen quietly. Now they unfold across timelines and tagged photos. Every like, comment, or memory can trigger a wave of grief or confusion. People often underestimate how much emotional energy gets tied up in digital spaces. It’s not just your heart that needs boundaries. It’s your online world too. Resetting Your Privacy […]

Cultural Pressures and Divorce: Honoring Your Heritage While Choosing Your Path

Leaving a marriage is already painful. Doing it within a culture that doesn’t accept divorce makes it even harder. Shame builds fast when you’re expected to stay silent and keep the family reputation intact. People you thought would understand might turn away. Judgment from your community might hit harder than the loss itself. And yet, […]

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Before meeting Rachanaa, I was stuck in an exhausting, years-long divorce. I felt emotionally drained and lost hope.

Rachanaa is very intuitive. She picked up the underlying emotions behind my behaviour and helped me overcome it. I am really impressed by her coaching and felt good after the very first session!

Thank you for your guidance throughout my divorce. I didn't even know where to start but after attending your first session I could see light across the tunnel. Cannot thank you enough.

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